Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Year in Review



A year has passed since my great adventure in Nepal began.  My group of volunteers was recently asked to summarize our experience so far in six words.  "Climb up, slip down, move forward" was one statement I particularly identified with.   I, like many other individuals who have served in Peace Corps, tend to share with others only the high points, but, as another friend put it, "Peace Corps ain't fairytales and sprinkles."  Don't get me wrong, it hasn't been a bad experience.  As another friend shared, "frustration, failure, fulfillment are all inevitable."  There have been long periods of empty time as I try to figure out what I'm supposed to be doing here.  There have been agonizing days of frustration as I try to overcome my own weaknesses that stand in the way of me accomplishing my goals.  Too many of my days have been shadowed with the discouragement of failure.  And there are the days I just want to scream at the people around me and run away.  But then again, there are the breathtaking mountain views, the friendships I have developed with my Nepali family and community, the fact that I can actually have a conversation with them in Nepali, the confidence I've gained in my own abilities, technical skills learned, and a handful of homes that have been transformed by my helping them build improved cook stoves.  Here's a brief look at what the past year has brought me.

I have been warmly welcomed into two families and two communities


 I've celebrated dozens of holidays



 I've helped entertain hundreds of visitors

 I've attended a few too many weddings and funerals


 I've been on TV several times

 I got to spend a weekend with my brother

 I've been able to watch my new niece grow from a tiny newborn to a thriving infant

 I've picked thousands of tomatoes.  I've probably eaten thousands of tomatoes too.

 I've helped build and repair a few roads

 I've helped construct 21 improved cook stoves in my community and trained 26 new volunteers in ICS construction

I've walked to and attended dozens of meetings

 I created my own permagarden and was actually successful

 I've helped clear the underbrush in our forest to make room for a coffee plantation.  In the process I also got really good at pulling leaches off my ankles and learned that sandals really are the best type of foot gear in certain working conditions.

And I've seen my first host families new home transform from a nice pile of bricks into a bright pink mansion.


 No, it hasn't all been fairytails and sprinkles, but it has been good and I have high hopes and expectations for the coming year.

6 comments:

  1. It looks like you have had some awesome experiences! It looks so pretty there! I do like the pink mansion. Pink is a good color...

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  2. I would just like to mention that if you changed the color of the people to a darker color and slightly different garb, this would look almost exactly like my experience in PC Cameroon. Amazing how similar the photos are!

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  3. Good morning how are you?

    My name is Emilio, I am a Spanish boy and I live in a town near to Madrid. I am a very interested person in knowing things so different as the culture, the way of life of the inhabitants of our planet, the fauna, the flora, and the landscapes of all the countries of the world etc. in summary, I am a person that enjoys traveling, learning and respecting people's diversity from all over the world.

    I would love to travel and meet in person all the aspects above mentioned, but unfortunately as this is very expensive and my purchasing power is quite small, so I devised a way to travel with the imagination in every corner of our planet. A few years ago I started a collection of used stamps because trough them, you can see pictures about fauna, flora, monuments, landscapes etc. from all the countries. As every day is more and more difficult to get stamps, some years ago I started a new collection in order to get traditional letters addressed to me in which my goal was to get at least 1 letter from each country in the world. This modest goal is feasible to reach in the most part of countries, but unfortunately it’s impossible to achieve in other various territories for several reasons, either because they are countries at war, either because they are countries with extreme poverty or because for whatever reason the postal system is not functioning properly.

    For all this I would ask you one small favor:
    Would you be so kind as to send me a letter by traditional mail from Nepal? I understand perfectly that you think that your blog is not the appropriate place to ask this, and even, is very probably that you ignore my letter, but I would call your attention to the difficulty involved in getting a letter from that country, and also I don’t know anyone neither where to write in Nepal in order to increase my collection. a letter for me is like a little souvenir, like if I have had visited that territory with my imagination and at same time, the arrival of the letters from a country is a sign of peace and normality and an original way to promote a country in the world. My postal address is the following one:

    Emilio Fernandez Esteban
    Avenida Juan de la Cierva, 44
    28902 Getafe (Madrid)
    Spain

    If you wish, you can visit my blog www.cartasenmibuzon.blogspot.com where you can see the pictures of all the letters that I have received from whole World.

    Finally I would like to thank the attention given to this letter, and whether you can help me or not, I send my best wishes for peace, health and happiness for you, your family and all your dear beings.

    Yours Sincerely

    Emilio Fernandez

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  4. It sounds like it has been a full year. Wonderful!
    xoxo
    juleen

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  5. Thank you Kerry. I was Nepal 7, almost 50 years ago, and so pleased to see the tradition continue--although we would never have worn levi's! (Saris to encourage the girls to come to school). My younger sister went to Nepal this year to hike, and it has re-awakened my memories. Thanks for your pictures and your thoughts. Vicki

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